Why not? He is a cute-man, he came from good background, he is handsome, he is funny, financially successful, his parents are well-off, tender, romantic, gone to school and lots of that, but many of us have found that the more we want to be in a relationship, the higher the chances that the whole thing will crash and burn.
It that the harder we try to hold onto a relationship, the greater the likelihood that it will slip away from us? It has to do with the push-pull theory of attraction. According to this theory, what we grab at has the tendency to move away from us. Teens, young adults understand this theory!
When you ever had something that someone really, really wanted? You that the chances are that you felt is
tiny urge not to give it to him, just so the person could get upset and you could laugh. Immature
behavior, yes, but it’s inside all of us.
The Source of Mistakes
Denying other people what they want might be a great source of mistakes women make. Sometimes, because you did not prayed and commit your way to God specially when you are in the mid-sea of love on who to marry and who I would not hook-up with.
When it comes to relationships, not giving someone else what they want becomes some else to them and you must to know when to say yes or no through praying to God, discuss it parents they would advise you, etc.
People often don’t give their partners what they want in time or
simply because their partners can easily get more upset and pull at what they want even harder. They push back; their partners pull. They’ll switch roles, but the pushing and pulling remains the same.
Give Him/Her treat That All About Life
The key is to stop grabbing at what you want with love. Give him a treat as he make a request and ask him to give little time to think about it. Then, you have a lot of time to figure things out, in all make sure you involve God your creator, this would make you to avoid a big mistake.
Don’t startle it. Let it grow, make him closer to your presence and move towards you cautiously. You see, when you try to hold onto another person, or hold onto your relationship, you are acting out of fear of loss. All your act of pulling originates in the scarcity mentality.
You may think that you have to hold onto this guy, because this is as good as it gets. Or you may feel that you have to hold onto this relationship, because if it doesn’t work out you’re not
going to be able to get another one.
Don’t Give To The Love of Your Heart, That is Where Many Had Failed!
Be honest with yourself and follow your heart without fear. You will be OK. May God will help sir/ma’am. More of this write-up are on the way for you, please do keep in touch with this blog. Thanks